Meeting a twin flame is a special, life-changing moment! However, this is only the beginning of what awaits your two souls. The encounter kicks off a dynamic new part of your life; one that will facilitate growth, inspire change, and challenge you to fully accept yourself. Meeting your twin flame is like the first step on a journey.
We will explore each of the twin flame stages in turn and examine how the twin flame signs relate to each of these crucial stages. Some are mostly associated with wonderful experiences while others can be emotionally taxing, but all are necessary parts of meeting the other half of yourself.
The research
The seeking stage involves a strong sense of longing and a keen awareness that something is missing in your life. Even if you’ve never really thought about soul mates and twin flames before, this is the stage where you start to believe that there really is someone just right for you. In all likelihood, you will first doubt this feeling; you may not be sure what to do with it, but on the deepest level you will know that you can meet the right person.
The seeking stage is also about preparing your life for the arrival of your twin flame, although you may not know why you are doing this. For example, you can start journaling, engage in energy therapy, or work on your past relationships. On an unconscious level, you know that all of these things are necessary to welcome your twin flame.
When we talk about the journey of a Twin flame, we attach to each of these flames either a Yin polarity or a Yang polarity. Yin and Yang are used in the analysis of all the phenomena of life and the cosmos.
The gratitude
As stated above, you will tend to know when you have met your twin flame. This second stage of inner awakening is where you meet physically, and the realization of your compatibility hits you hard. It will often be a chance meeting, full of coincidences and small signs that your meeting was destined to take place.
Sometimes you won’t be together very long, but even a brief contact is enough to let you know that something special is going on and that you have a common goal. It’s also worth noting that awakening can take place in a dream, which means you « meet » your twin flame in the dreamscape before you meet in real life. However you meet, you will be shaken by the intensity of the bond you feel.
The test
The testing stage of a twin flame experience is trying to understand your relationship as a couple with that other person. It’s about setting and testing boundaries and moving beyond the purely blissful experience of falling in love.
This stage will only happen when you have enough time to enjoy a “honeymoon” type phase. Moreover, this step is crucial if you want to have a more meaningful long-term relationship. For example, it is at this stage that you negotiate what your future will look like and begin to notice what may be obstacles to that future.
Although you are each meant to know and love each other, you will always engage in conflict (in the same way that before you met your twin flame you engaged in conflict with other parts of yourself). same). How you resolve these conflicts will determine whether you can stay together.
The separation
While twin flame love can be euphoric, it also inevitably involves a crisis stage in our lives: separation. This is often unpleasant, but the good news is that it can also catalyze a deeper and more stable long-term bond. This stage of separation involves significant anxiety and worry about your bond with your twin soul. This separation can be related to grief, emotional dependency, betrayal, hurt, power struggles or self-love or any number of other things that put pressure on your connection with your flame. twin in your personal development.
Despite the supernatural twin flame compatibility, it’s often a time when both people decide to go their separate ways (a process that’s extremely painful given that it involves giving up a part of yourself). However, if you can get through the following steps, you will come out stronger than ever.
The race or pursuit stage
Whatever form the crisis phase takes, it is always followed by a running or pursuit phase. You can be in either role, and you and your twin flame can switch between the two roles. This stage revolves around a twin soul moving away, often out of fear of confronting the level of intimacy the two of you are capable of experiencing. The twin in this role will suffer and feel defensive. During this time, the other twin soul will fight because they will feel that this bond is very strong.
Often the end of this stage is characterized by both twin flames realizing that there are forces at work and hurts beyond their control.
Acceptance
At this point, both of you will begin to let go of an earlier need to control your relationship. In this context, it is not about letting go of your connection, but rather about accepting that neither of you can escape fate. It can be a positive awareness that both frees you from past anxieties and allows you to live better in the present moment, confident that the Universe will take you where you need to go.
Know that progressing through this phase is only possible if you both work through the issues that led up to the crisis and the running/chasing phases. For many people, the main problem here is that twin flames are mirrors. So often the things you’ll need to work on are the negative feelings you have about yourself, reflected back to you in your twin’s eyes.
Reunion
When you and your twin flame move into the reunion stage, you will feel a sense of relief that the balance has been restored.
By going through the previous and difficult stages, you will have learned a lot about yourselves and the potential attached to the unique type of love you have found.
For some twin flames, this reunion will be physical in nature.
Regardless of the particular form the meeting takes, it carries with it a sense of peace, spirituality, acceptance and mutual understanding.
If you can do this work and face the most tumultuous parts of your journey, the energy of the twin flame inevitably leads both parties to this joining stage. After the reunion, the hard work is over; all you have to do now is live, enjoying the feeling of wholeness that can only be found in each other’s company.
